Introduction
Herbs and Flowers of Love
by Emelie Tolley
Gathered into a bouquet by two lovers strolling
through a meadow or
pressed into a heart picture such as this one, flowers and herbs
are enduring
expressions of love, fidelity, and caring. Pansies, rosemary,
even basil
have been used to cast spells, forcast the romantic future, and
ensure
fidelity. Plant lore, passed down through poems and tales,
is as charming as
the blossoms themselves.
ARTICLE
I love to read these writings of love and cunning
while imagining sweet,
young maidens gathering flowers to work their magic. Some
days I wonder if
it might not be worth trying one of the more belevable "spells"
myself. As
Valentine's Day approaches, I thought you might enjoy reading about
a few of
my favorite bits of lore. You might even find them useful!
Velvety red roses have symbolized love, at least
since the days of the
Roman Empire. As the story goes, a young woman named Rodanthe
was blessed
with such exquisite beauty that she was beseiged by suitors. But she had
little interest in any of them, and tiring of their relentless pursuit
the
damsel sought refuge in the Temple of Diana. The suitors were
not deterred,
however, and stirred by her incredible beauty, they broke down the
temple
gate. Furious at this intrusion, Diana turned Rodanthe into
a rose and all
the suitors into thorns. Henceforth, the rose became the symbol
of love and
beauty, crowning Roman brides and grooms as well as Cupid and Venus.
Yet this Roman rose must have been white, since
another tale recounts how
Venus's tears, shed over her unrequited love of Adonis, fell on
a white rose,
turning it red. Years later, country maidens plucked a red
rose on
Midsummer's Eve. If it had not faded by the following month,
it signaled
that their lovers were faithful. And if they dreamed of these
beauteous red
flowers, they were sure they would marry for love.
Like the rose, the pansy has not only been closely
connected to love, but
it is also said to have started out pure white, becoming a rich
purple when
pierced by Cupid's arrow. Pansies' sweet little faces suggest
the visages of
loved ones, and the name, derived from the French pensée,
meaning thought,
reflects the flower's reputed power to make a lover think of you. Pansies
probably possess more folk names than any other herb or flower,
from
tickle-my-fancy to Johnny-jump-up-and-kiss-me (hence the name
Johnny-jump-ups) and heartsease, reflecting the wild pansy's supposed
ability
to ease the pain of separated lovers.
Pansies' powers in matters of love are legendary. The Celts brewed a
love potion from the heart-shaped leaves, which were also thought
to cure a
broken heart. Fortune-tellers once even read the lines in
the faces of these
flowers to predict the romantic futures of the Knights of the Round
Table.
Seven lines, a lucky amount, meant constancy in love, while more
meant
fickleness and even disappointment in affairs of the heart. And as we all
remember from Shakespeare's "Midsummer Night's Dream," the juice
of a pansy
applied to the eyelids of sleeping persons made them dote romantically
on the
first creature they espied upon awakening, even if it were an ass. This
power could obviously lead to much mischief in the wrong hands.
Constancy, a trait to be sought in any relationship,
was symbolized by
bright orange calendulas. In spite of their bright color,
they appeared in
bridal bouquets and were also used to cast love spells, as were
less colorful
herbs. Rosemary, for example, because it remained fresh and
fragrant so long
and was believed to strengthen memory, became a symbol of fidelity
between
lovers. It was entwined in bridal wreaths, and gilded branches
of the
pungent herb, gaily tied with colored ribbons, were presented to
wedding
guests as a symbol of love and loyalty.
If a spring was placed under the pillow on the
eve of Saint Agness, a
future husband was supposed to appear in one's dreams.
William Langham in his "Garden of Health" advised
his readers in 1579 to
"carry the flowers about thee to make thee merry and glad and well-beloved
of
all men...hang the flowers on thy bed and place rosemary in the
bath to make
thee lusty, lively, joyful, liking, and young." With that
recommendation, it
is hard to see how anyone survived without a rosemary plant growing
in the
garden or window, especially since rosemary water could be used
to sweeten
the breath before a romantic tryst.
Even basil, known now primarily for its pungent
flavor, was part of the
game of love. In Northern Europe it has always been considered
a symbol of
chastity. A sprig of the fragrant herb was often placed in
the hand of a
young maiden to test here purity. If it withered, it was a
sure sign that
the girl had other lovers. Since basil tends to wilt rather
quickly, I
suspect many an innocent girl failed the test. And even though
basil is
considered a token of love, I like to think the reason Moldavian
bridesmaids
presented the groom with a beribboned bouquet of basil on the wedding
morning
was the hope this would keep him chaste outside of marriage.
In Tudor England another fragrant herb became
the means by which young
girls found matrimony. On Valentine's Day anyone who placed
a bay leaf under
the pillow and dreamt of love would be married within a year if
he or she
remembered to chant this little couplet first: "Saint Valentine,
be kind to
me,/ In my dreams, let me true love see." Bay leaves were
also useful to
jilted lovers because the delicious scent of burning bay leaves
in the house
was supposed to bring back a departed lover.
Other plants such as sandalwood and elderflower
were sought out simply
for their heady fragrance, which acted as an aphrodisiac. One of the most
cherished of these was jasmine, which is still considered a lucky
symbol in
Italian bridal bouquets. It has incredibly fragrant blossoms
that open at
night. Knowing this, generations of Asian women have tucked
them in their
hair, aware that by the time the moon was high the blossoms would
be open and
the warmth of their bodies would release the fragrance, enveloping
them in
the seductive scent.
In Thailand, Indonesia, and other parts of Asia,
the early hours of the
morning find women in the field gathering the unopened blossoms. They string
them into fragrant garlands, then carry them to the marketplace
to sell. In
the evening, instead of wearing perfume in the western manner, the
local
women drape a jasmine garland about their necks to enchant their
lovers.
Although it might be impractical for us to wear
a necklace of jasmine to
entice our favorite man, there are ways we can take advantage of
the
seductive scent of herbs and flora to inspire affection. I
think one of the
nicest is to luxuriate in a warm herbal bath. My favorite
mixture includes
rosemary, which, as Mr. Langham said, makes you lively. I
add to that some
roses for more scent, a little catnip for relaxation, and chamomile
to soothe
and soften my skin.
To make your house as seductive as you are, mix
up a lovely rose
potpourri and set bowls of it next to your favorite chair or beside
your bed
where its romantic fragrance will envelop you with thoughts of love. Or if
you prefer jasmine, buy a small vial of jasmine oil and add a few
drops to a
burning candle. These are just a few of the ways to bring
the romantic
properties of herbs and flowers into your life. But why not
start by
surprising your love on Valentine's Day with a single red rose or
a sprig of
rosemary and an invitation to an intimate dinner in your scented
lair? |